THE VIRILIYY SOLUTION: THE SPEED AGE
It’s not surprising that the remarks I hear range from fearful to ecstatic. A profound change in one’s sexual habits is no small matter, and cannot be dealt with in the time it takes to swallow a little pill.
Time, in a variety of ways, is an important issue where ED and its implications—as well as treatment—are concerned. Unfortunately, in today’s society, we’re used to quick fixes. In fact, we have come to anticipate that the lime it lakes lo accomplish something will continually he shortened.
Think about it. We expect our computers to find and disseminate information at a nanosecond pace. We demand the most rapid service, whether on the phone, in a restaurant, or from our family physician. We seek immediate gratification in all areas of our intensely stepped-up lives. And if we aren’t getting what we want, when we want it, we become impatient, irritated, or bored.
The payoff for all that speeding up is more freedom—or so it seems. But ironically, the very liberty we seek is immediately thwarted because we don’t have the time to explore it. And, unfortunately, the speed age sorely compromises the area that demands the most time: our intimate sexual relationships. Brevity of communication, heightened expectations, and shorter encounters are the hallmarks of the speed age. They are also antithetical to a healthy, intimate partnership.
While it’s true that ED medication helps to overcome a physiological problem, it’s the couple who must resolve their relationship issues. And that takes dedication, effort—and time.
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March 27, 2009 - 6:05 AM